Manifest Your Dreams With NLP
Initially, I became aware of Neuro Linguistic Programming (or NLP), while completing my degree at an Italian university. My mother was in the process of becoming a Master Trainer with one of the best, if not the best, Italian trainer, Vincenzo Fanelli. Her desk was full of books with strange titles like “Time Line”, “PNL” (NLP in Italian), “Alternate State of Consciousness”, “Enneagram”, and “Effective Communication”.
Professionally, my mother was and is a graphologist. Graphology is the study of the human brain and behavior through handwriting. The science is rooted in neuroscience and psychology. My mother regularly offered books and tricks to use whenever there was an exam on the horizon or had a difficult book read.
At this time, I hadn’t yet explored the realms of yoga, meditation, or any other spiritual endeavor. I enjoyed my studies at the university and trained hard at basketball. There were two big dreams in my life – becoming a recognized writer and a professional sportsman. I tried everything my mother would suggest to reach my goals. Whether it was reading a book faster or sinking a three-pointer – it freaking worked!
This turned my natural curiosity into a deep interest in the subject. But, as often does, life happened. I was already overwhelmed with the amount of information I was required to study for my degree and soon stopped exploring the topic. Though, I’d often still employ my mother’s “tricks”.
I wasn’t ready at age nineteen for the type of expedited growth that NLP would have initiated. Apparently, I needed many more years of failures and frustration to appreciate that I’d been standing on a goldmine.
The Universe Speaks
Years passed. My mother continued to study NLP mainly for her personal growth, and I went on to discover the world of meditation and then yoga. Both of which saved my life and my body in turn. I travel the world, living, working, and traveling throughout six continents.
Then, one day the universe knocked by way of a nearly fatal motorcycle accident. My mind, body, and spirit were shattered. To recover, I underwent an intense self re-training and recovery program based on my knowledge of yoga and meditation, with surprising results. I visited a friend and physiotherapist who told me there wasn’t much she could do for me, but added “keep doing what you’re doing”. What I was doing seemed to be working, but I felt I needed something more specific and more efficient. The universe came knocking again …
Within a week, two things happened:
– While strolling through a Barnes and Noble with my then-new Miami soulmate a book called to me. At this point, I hadn’t worked for months, so I was keeping all my expenses to a minimum. Food and flight to see her was basically what I could afford. Books I considered a luxury. Yet, the white book, with the minimal cover, piled on top of other books “had something”. I took it in my hands, read the summary, opened it, and read few lines. The title – “The Power of the Subconscious Mind” by Murphy. I quickly put it back. Then, came back to it at least four or five times during my visit. Finally, something inside me told me that I had to purchase it. Thanks to yoga and meditation I have learned to listen to those strange stirrings. As it always is, intuition was right. I loved the book and immediately put it into action, using simple techniques for manifesting and reconditioning the subconscious mind.
– A few months later, my mother gifted me and my brother of a NLP training course with her old trainer Vincenzo for Christmas. The course was scheduled for March. The topic: “Quantum Mind, how to manifest a different reality using the laws of quantum physics and the subatomic world. I hadn’t heard my mother mention the word NLP for at least six years at this point.
‘Wow! Ok’, I thought, ‘I guess there’s something I need to learn here’. About six months later, in a even stranger way, another book made its way to me. It was the latest book from Richard Bandler, the co-creator of NLP. It was like the Murphy book, only more precise, more efficient, and more scientific. Apparently, a lady at the NLP course I’d attended in March, overheard a conversation I had with the trainer. I’d asked him about possible books in English, so I could learn the terminology and work with english speakers, as well as Italians. A few months later, my brother meets this lady at another course, and she hands him the English copy of Bandlers’s book, which he then passes on to me. Consider the fact that finding a person that reads in English in Italy is rare. Stranger still is that she owned a copy of that book in the original language. I don’t know where she could have purchased it in Italy. The woman never exchanged contact information with my brother, so we’re still not totally sure if it was a gift or a loan. Well, I’ve used that book so much and have taken so many notes that I might buy a new one in case she needs it!
Manifestation In Real Life
I was catapulted into the world of NLP. And I was ready this time. I immediately began to use all that amazing new knowledge on myself. Then, branched out to include my friends, family, and now clients with revolutionary results! Here’s a short list bulleting the whirlwind of my life over the last two years:
– Moved to the US and got married.
– Received the same amount of money 40k that months before I decided would a starting point for a stable life in U.S.
– Started a new business.
– Healed a broken meniscus and other injuries from the driving accident and recovered all my physical strength and flexibility at great speed.
– Signed with a publisher that will debut my first novel.
– Found a new house for my family at the perfect monthly price (everyone was saying: “for that price you won’t find anything in South Miami!)
– Got rid of almost all the post traumatic responses from the accident.
How did all of this happen?
Because I now know how the energy in the universe works at a subatomic level (we are made of the same stuff!). Now, I know how consciousness and its brain waves affect external reality. I uninstalled subconscious limiting beliefs and social conditioning that were sabotaging my life and learned at a new more effective subconscious level. That’s how.
I’m not a millionaire… yet. I don’t have the perfect relationship… yet. I haven’t fully reached my potential… yet…But, everything is so much better now, so much easier now, and there’s so much more possibility. Before everything seemed difficult, impossible, or unreal. Now, I know better, and not because of some hippie fluffy talk from an IG “influencer”, but because I have tools, techniques, and explanations that made things clear, real, and possible. Using Bandler’s words:
“Your fears, your doubts, your confusions, your habits, and your compulsions are all byproducts of how you’re thinking and how you’re thinking dictates how you’re feeling and behaving and living your life. If you have fears, it-s not that heights or spiders or meeting new people, for example, that scare you; it’s that you LEARNED how to be afraid of heights, spiders, and new people. Babies are born with only two fears: the fear of falling and the fear of loud noises. All other human fears are learned. Therefore, if you learned to be afraid, you can learn to be unafraid. If you learned to do something one way, you can learn how to do it totally differently and better. Learning is the way to personal freedom. (Meditation) and NLP are tools to make this easy and fun.”
No one is going to fix you. With NLP you will learn how to change, rather than to be fixed. I can show you a way to improve your life, whether you’re facing challenges in –
– Relationships
– Job and personal dreams
– Behaviors or automatic emotional responses that ruin your day or even your whole life (including memories, a phobias or and past traumas).
For some it’ll take one week, others a few more. Either way, you will change for sure. It’s a lie that people stay the same – you either get better or worse. If you wish to grow better, contact me, now.
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